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Five Steps To Create The Perfect Wedding Ceremony Playlist

Music is a fabulous way to add a personal touch to your wedding ceremony. The right song can evoke powerful emotions, enhance the ambiance, and leave a lasting impression on both the couple and their guests. However, with countless options to choose from, ranging from classical pieces to contemporary hits, you may find yourself searching for tips on how to find the perfect song that truly sets the tone for your special day.


Selecting the perfect music for your wedding ceremony is an essential part of the planning process that deserves thoughtful consideration. By reflecting on your wedding's theme, the significance of the songs, and the logistics of your music choices, you can create a magical atmosphere that resonates with love and joy. Here are some top tips to help you navigate this exciting journey!


Here are five steps to curate the perfect wedding ceremony playlist:


Create The Perfect Wedding Ceremony Playlist, Step 1: Consider The General Theme And Atmosphere Of Your Wedding Ceremony

When choosing music for your wedding ceremony, consider the overall theme, style and vibes of your wedding. Whether you are planning a traditional ceremony in a more formal venue or a relaxed outdoor gathering, the music should align with the mood you wish to create. For a romantic and elegant affair, you might lean towards classical music or instrumental versions of popular love songs. If your wedding has a more casual vibe, upbeat and fun tracks may be more appropriate to engage your guests and make them feel at ease.


Step 2: Compile A Shortlist Based On Your Preferences And Story

After considering the more general style of your wedding, you may want to compile shortlist that aligns with your personal preferences and story. When choosing a song or a particular piece of music for your wedding ceremony the following tips may help you create a short list:


  • Reflect on your relationship and identify songs that hold special meaning for you as a couple. This could be the song that played during your first date, a track that resonates with a memorable trip you took together, or even a piece that captures the essence of your journey as partners. By incorporating these personal touches, you not only make your ceremony more meaningful but also create an unforgettable experience that reflects your love.

  • Select songs that express a sentiment that reflect how you feel about each other and your special connection. 

  • Perhaps you wish to incorporate music that reflect a more traditional or cultural element in your ceremony, and honours your heritages.

  • Write down the songs that you simply love as they make you happy!


You can do this exercise as a couple, or you can first create a short list each and them compare! Additionally, you can ask suggestions from family and friends that could inspire your choices


Step 3: Consider A Sing-Along To Engage Your Guests

You can listen to music as part of your wedding ceremony, but also invite your guests to sings along to a song or hymn. This is a great way to get everyone involved and create a sense of community. Here are some tips:


  • Make sure people have the lyrics

  • Consider hiring a choir as they can lead the singing

  • People can be shy - encourage them to give it their best and not be shy. Reassure them that it;s all about the intention, not the quality of the singing!


Couple and wedding celebrant Rosalie Kuyvenhoven singing together at a wedding ceremony in London


Step 4: Decide When To Play The Music You Have Chosen

Music can be played at the following moments in the wedding ceremony: 


1. During processional ‘walking down the aisle’.

2. During certificate signing or a symbolic ritual 

3. As a moment of reflection

4. During recessional, when the newly weds and wedding party walk back down the aisle 


Consider the atmosphere you want to establish when choosing the timing for playing different music pieces. For the processional, you might opt for more reflective music, or select an energetic song if you wish to create an energetic mood. Recessional music is usually lively as it guides everyone towards the ensuing celebrations.


Step 5: Consider The Logistics Of Playing Your Music

Finally, consider the logistics of incorporating live music versus recorded tracks. Hiring a live band or a solo musician can add an enchanting and dynamic element to your ceremony, while a carefully curated playlist can offer flexibility and convenience. Whichever route you choose, ensure that the sound quality is top-notch, as this will significantly enhance the overall experience for you and your guests.




Photo taken at Lynn and Tristan's wedding

Photo credits: Luke Bell Photography


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